Does not usually include or imply aspects of incest or pedophilism,* but rather the nurturing relationship of parent/child or teacher/student.Īlgolagnia: Deriving sexual pleasure from the application of pain to an erogenous zoneĪnal hook: Often used in suspension bondage, it is placed in the anal opening and used as part of the suspension.Īnal torture (also see figging): Inflicting pain on the anus. Aside from its necessity, aftercare can be one of the most rewarding and loving experiences the participants can share.Īge play: Scene (or entire relationship) in which one person (usually the submissive) dresses and acts as if younger in age, ranging from infant to adult child. Aftercare may consist of some or all of the following components: Being away from noise, activity, bright light physical closeness and touching with the partner hydration with water or sport drink keeping warm. Depending on the intensity of the scene and the nature of the participants, aftercare may be very important to one or both participants in order to prevent later emotional aftereffects. May leave temporary marks some may go so far as to draw blood, in which case infection prevention is important.Īdult baby (see diaper lover): One who dresses and/or role plays the part of a baby or toddler.Īftercare (see Dom drop, sub drop, subspace): The time after a BDSM scene or play session in which the participants calm down, and slowly come back in touch with reality. A Total Power Exchange, or TPE, relationship would be the most extreme form of 24/7 some consider the terms equivalent.Ībrasion play: Using something rough (such as sandpaper or scrub brush) to provide stimulation. DeFUNition: Think “Leave It To Beaver” with a dungeon in the basement….Ģ4/7 (see TPE): A D/s relationship which is in effect at all times.

Similarities with Christian domestic discipline (CDD), taken in hand (TIH) practices. 1950s, 1960s (etc) era: Refers to relationships based on the mores and practices of the time period generally a monogamous, heterosexual, male-led relationship.

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